Monday 27 August 2018

A life imagined

When we began the restoration of Towerwater, we had a dream and a vision. We imagined how we would live this dream. We could never have imagined the journey on which we were embarking. In the process, we experienced the whole spectrum of emotions. Excitement, hope, despair, joy, sadness, frustration and at times, amazement at what we had achieved.


Towerwater is such a big part of our lives. The life it offers us in return, is what we imagined but somehow also better. The experience of living in a traditional home and respecting the food, gardening and building traditions that go with it, provided a recipe for discovering the small unseen things that make for a completeness of life.




When I embarked on writing this blog four years ago, I could not have imagined how I would experience this life imagined. The blog made me look at my life through a microscope. I had to imagine how the readers might see it. I was tempted to write it in Afrikaans, my home language, because it is such a descriptive language. A language that lends itself to storytelling.



However, in the end I decided to write most of the blogposts in English. Now I am grateful for that because the blog has received over 95 000 page views; the bulk of whom are international readers. It amazes me to see the countries where the blog has been read. I try to imagine what the reader must think of this life on a restored vernacular homestead in a small town located on the edge of the Klein Karoo.




Life at Towerwater is closely tied to the 12 months and the four seasons. Activities, driven by nature, become familiar and are repeated each year. But my innate curiosity and my varied interests, always allow me to look differently at life. In the process, I have discovered the many fine threads of a golden string. Everything is tied together. Art, literature, architecture, gardening and food. These form the links. Whether from a 16th century Spanish artist, a 14th century cook or a 19th century plants-woman, the centuries and diverse cultures present no barrier.






Our house is rich with a simple history of life. Embracing the knowledge that came before, makes it feel as though life is too big. That one can never know everything. If one researches enough, one discovers that little in life is completely new. Somewhere in history, somebody has already contemplated the same idea.






My blog allows me to share all the wonderful things I find. It is a discovery of how to live a complete life. It is an engagement with everything that interests me. We have learnt to focus on the positives of life.  With a partner that always sees the glass as half full, it is difficult not to.


Towerwater has taught us to live with humility and gratitude. Nothing is for free. The more you put into life, the more life gives back.
    

As Henry David Thoreau said, “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.”


Happy birthday, blog!

6 comments:

  1. Hallo Thys!

    A bit of a belated Happy Birthday to your blog. What can one say but that you and Keith truly set an extremely high bar on a life well-lived due to such love and attention to detail on all levels! Michael and I feel in awe of your acccomplishments. Although it's a constant reminder how far we have to go with our place and how much work and dedication is involved. Our hats are off to you both!!! And we feel so blessed that you share with such generosity and love the fruits of your hard labor with us... and all those who are so blessed to have you and Keith in their lives. You not only nurture a home but all of our hearts. And for that we are eternally grateful.
    Love always
    Susan and Michael

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  2. Thys, congratulations on your blog's birthday. Quite an achievement. All those hundreds of posts and thousands of beautiful images. Informative and simply charming and appreciated all over the world. Well done.

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  3. Thank you Susan and Michael for your kind words. Having you as friends are a blessing and you are adding so much to a life well-lived. You have done so much to stimulate my creativity with your own interests. Your culinary gifts have added a touch of class to many occasions at Towerwater. Thank you for your generous friendship.
    Love Thys and Keith

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  4. Keith thank you for your constant support and making so many things possible for a life well-lived.

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  5. Geluk Thys!
    Ek geniet Towerwater saam met julle hier van ver af. Ek onthou nog die beginjare destyds in die 90s. Baie liefde van julle vriendin in Nieuseeland.

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    1. Dankie Meta ja ons kom al 'n lang pad saam wens jy kon partykeer saam met ons om die tafel kuier.

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